Every parent wants their child to be safe, cared for, and protected. It’s something that is virtually instinctual in moms and dads. But can some parents take it too far? In the past decade or so, a phenomenon termed “helicopter parenting” has taken off, so to speak.
Helicopter parenting is a phrase used to identify parents whose protective nature of their child or children is to the extreme. These parents are overprotective to the fullest, usually making sure their child is always in their sight and keeping them away from all real or perceived danger by any means necessary. It can go so far as to make the child and those around them uncomfortable or miserable.
Parents can turn into “helicopters” anywhere, but the main environments are usually educational or playtime related. While playtime can yield accidents or injuries to children, should it become a time and place for parents to hover, or should they let their child be independent and free while playing? Furthermore, are you concerned you might be one of these “helicopter parents”?
Read the signs of helicopter parenting, and determine whether it’s all worth it to hover when your child plays.
One of the main characteristics of helicopter parents is their constant fear that their child will hurt themselves in some way, spurring them to constantly check on their child while playing. While it’s done with good intentions, it can cause a child to become overwhelmed and stop them from playing creatively or adventurously. If they have to worry about their parent constantly agonizing over their every move, they may just tone it down or stop completely.
Do You Think Your Child Is A “Little Angel”?
Another hallmark of helicopter parents is their belief that their child rarely if ever does anything wrong. They can even become irate if anyone suggests otherwise! While at play, children are bound to make mistakes and become rude or mean to each other. Parents are the only one who can properly correct those attitudes and situations as they arise. To pretend otherwise tends to make for a selfish kid and an in-denial parent.
Are You Interfering With Your Child’s Relationships?
Play dates are invaluable to children growing up, as they serve as a way to socialize kids and prepare them for school. Structured and free play abound during play dates, and are a great way for kids to obtain close bonds with each other and make new friends. But are you constantly showing your child how to play a game? Suggesting they play a new or less dangerous one? Or in other words, relentlessly butting in? That can push other children away from your child and make them uncomfortable. Additionally, this can drive a wedge in between you and your child’s personal relationship if they decide to harbor resentment against you because of it.
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